Don't be misled

Don't be misled

Many persons are misled by the perverse logic of the so-called intelligent people who say that scriptures and saints have also preached to lead a natural way of life. When you desire to work, work. When you desire to play, play. When you feel hungry, eat. When you are tired, go to sleep. They are advocates for uncontrolled sense pleasures. Even the Freudian psychologists stress that repression or suppression of the sexual desires is the cause of many diseases. So there should be no tension or suppression. They advocate for free sex.

In the practice of Brahmacharya, what is wanted is elimination of lust, but not suppression. Repression or suppression of the sexual desires will attack you again and again and will produce wet dreams, irritability and restlessness of mind. Brahmacharya means control, but not suppression of the sexual desire or sex force. The mind should be rendered pure by Meditation, Japa, Kirtan and Prayer. If the mind is filled with sublime divine thoughts by meditation, japa, prayer and study of holy scriptures, the sex desire will be devitalized and the sexual energy is transmuted into Ojas or spiritual energy. Sublimation is not a matter of suppression or repression, but a positive, dynamic, conversion process. The material energy is converted into spiritual energy, just as heat is changed into light and electricity. Freud had studied the cases of suppression or repression of sexual desire. He did not study the cases of sublimation of sexual energy into spiritual energy. Dr. Freud called desire as 'sexual instinct’ or 'libido'. Dr. Carl Jung refuted this theory and described this desire as the 'creative energy.'

The practice of celibacy is not attended with any danger or any dire disease or undesirable result such as the various sorts of complex that are wrongly attributed to it by the western psychologists. They have no practical knowledge of the subject on hand. They have got a wrong, ill-founded imagination that the ungratified sex energy assumes in disguise the various forms of complex such as touch phobia. The complex is due to some other causes. It is a morbid state of mind due to excessive jealousy, hatred, anger, worry and depression brought about by various causes. Some people quote saint Kabir's words,"O saints! Supreme is the natural state of Samadhi." They misinterpret the message of Kabir and indulge in unrestrained sex. But they commit selfdeception. Such people fail to understand that this natural life is meant for Enlightened (Jnani) souls. In a Self-Realized person, the sexual craving is entirely eradicated; no sexual thought will crop up in the mind. They have transcended the allurements of their senses, mind and intellect and are unaffected by praise or insult, steadfastly poised in the Self, beyond the reign of ignorance and illusion. They do not expect anything from the world. Worldly happenings have no effect on their perennial state of bliss. Thus, if they are offered abundance of material, they can, with perfect equanimity, either use them or throw them away. What to speak of material objects, they have lost all attachment even to their bodies. It makes no difference to them whether they have a body or not. They are in a continuous state of peace and bliss. It is in regard to these enlightened souls that saint Kabir says:

साधो, सहज समाधि भली |

If anyone has reached this stage, then it is all right. Otherwise beware! Under the pretext of leading a natural life, one should not make excuses and become the cause of one's own moral and spiritual degradation. Compare the state of an ordinary person to that of a great saint. If an ordinary person were insulted, he would become furious and revengeful. His mental poise is disturbed even by trivial attacks in life. He is a slave to passion and hatred. He is dominated by the sense of I-ness and My-ness: my house, my wealth, my reputation, and my body... This is the pseudo identification yet it seems real to the ordinary person. Is it possible for him to live being detached from these feelings? Please think over it seriously.

Even some saintly persons are not able to detach themselves from their bodies, what to speak of ordinary people? Many a sages and saintly persons are obsessed with these concepts, "I am an ascetic, I don't eat sweets, I don't look at women, I don't touch money..." They have not been able to make their lives 'natural'.

Many a people indulge in sense pleasures in the name of 'natural life'. The mouth waters at the sight of sweets. One becomes upset when one's beloved is in trouble. If the business suffers a loss, owner suffers from insomnia. One becomes homesick if one stays away from his dear ones for a long time. Are these the marks of a 'natural life' that the saints speak of? Certainly not!